OUCH!

Last night when I got home Riley was having fun hitting two rocks together trying to break the bigger one into smaller pieces. I'm putting away my stuff when he comes over crying because he got a piece of rock in his eye. I look and see it, almost right smack in the center of his eye. I tried to get it out but he had rubbed his eye enough that it was kinda stuck. By now he's crying hard.

Called Marci to come help and with both of us working on it, we were able to get it out. Whew! But while we were working on it, we were both in that mild parent panic because it looked like he had rubbed his eye hard enough to embed the piece of rock in it and we weren't able to get it out. I kept reminding myself - and Marci - to stay calm and don't freak him out. At one point I thought we would have to call 911 to get some help. But then Marci was able to get it with a moist q-tip.

Then Riley was fine, his eye didn't bother him at all the rest of the night. Sucks to learn a lesson the hard way, but now he knows to wear protective eye gear the next time he wants to do something like that. ;)

Riding the Cow Train at the Corn Maze

The "Cow" train is a tractor pulling a bunch of plastic containers fitted with seats and painted to look like cows. We all rode it and had a GREAT time!

This looks even better in "high quality" mode. You have to go to YouTube to view that. Put your mouse over the little up arrow at the bottom right which will display a little menu option. Click the menu option which shows you an embed link and url link. Now click on the video. That will open it in YouTube's website. Under the lower right corner of the video is a link called "watch in higher quality". Click that and it will look much better. :)

A wild bird & poor Maddie

We knew Roxy was a fast dog. Yesterday we found out just how fast. I didn't see it as I was busy playing Playstation 3 with Riley and Maddie was watching us, but I heard Marci's sudden scream at the dogs that told me something was wrong. When I got upstairs she was out of breath saying, "There's a bird in the room! There's a bird in the room!!" All of our birds were downstairs. The windows were all closed. But sure enough, there was a bird on the floor looking very terrified.

Turns out Roxy had caught the bird outside then brought it upstairs to play with. Poor bird! It's a very pretty blackbird and looks like Roxy may have damaged its wing but we couldn't tell just how bad. Marci called our vet and a few other places. Only one would try to help the wild bird back to health, the Audubon Society. However, they close at 5pm and we called at 4:55pm. So we got a spare bird cage and put the bird in it with some water and food, then covered the cage to help calm it. I checked on the bird this morning and it seemed to be fine, looked good, was moving around ok. Marci is going to take it to the Audubon Society today.

THEN, if that bird wasn't enough fun. Maddie burnt her hand on the stove!

Marci had just finished cooking, turned the stove off, and we've told Maddie TONS of times not to touch the burners. She's in her defiant stage now not doing what we ask and decided to see if it was hot. Instead of just touching it, she pressed here hand on it!

Screams, Marci trying to comfort her, putting her hand under the water, Riley freaking out, me trying to help hold Maddie, utter chaos for about five minutes. We got the neosporin and put it on her hand. That helped a lot - partly because it's the pain relieving formula. We also gave her some children's tylenol. Then we put more neosporin on her hand, found some good wrapping stuff and wrapped it up. I'm sure it'll be sore today and look worse than it is. Fortunately it wasn't THAT bad, no 3rd degree type stuff, and kids heal fast. Soon she was wanting to play and talking like her normal self. She went to sleep real easy too.

So quite the night for us! Oh, and Riley was really nice trying to help Maddie laugh and get her mind on something else. At first he didn't know what to say and I kinda got after him because I didn't want him to say the wrong things and make her cry more. But he figured out what to do and say and really helped her a lot. I also talked to him and explained why I was a little short and asked him to leave Maddie alone - and apologized because he was helping. Next time I'm going to give him a chance first, then if what he's trying to do isn't working I'll ask him to stop.

Never a dull moment at our house! haha

Riley's not-so fun day

Yesterday we were getting new carpet - the last carpet showed the seams horribly. The new carpet is MUCH better. I was getting ready to go home when my cell phone rang. It was Riley's school.

They told me he had fallen and banged his head pretty good. He wasn't that responsive so they called 911 and the paramedics were there. They checked him out and he's sitting up, talking to them doing fine. They also had Marci on the phone. Interestingly, the person talking to her gave her a story that wasn't as nice sounding. That person told her Riley had an accident, the paramedics are there and he's ok at the moment.

At the moment?! What does that mean?? That person had Marci all freaked out. I wish she would have been talking to the person who called me.

Fortunately, they transferred my call to a paramedic who told me everything was. He then asked if I wanted to take Riley home, to his doctor, have them take him to his doctor, or just leave him in school. I figured if they are asking if I want to leave him in school then he must be ok. I asked if he had any recommendation based on what he saw and then I accidentally hung up on myself while trying to put on my car seat belt. D'OH!

I waited for them to call back, they didn't, so I finally called them. By now Marci was at school and everything was fine. Marci called my parents as she was driving up to school because she was freaking out because the school person didn't say anything and made it sound really bad. My Mom called me and I told her I had talked to the paramedic and everything was ok.

Got to the school, found Marci with Riley in the car ready to go home. Her heart was still racing which I can understand. I carried him in from the car and sat with him for a bit. I shared some of my silly things I did as a kid, knocking the wind out of myself and coming to with everyone looking down on me, skinning my arm trying to jump my bike over a way too big ramp, etc. He got a laugh out of that. We sat there for a bit then I had to move the remaining furniture for the new carpet.

He and I sat in the other room reading books, watching tv, playing games, etc. He was doing fine and I couldn't even see the bump on his head anymore. Oh, forgot to say. Sounds like he tried to jump over a basketball, stepped on it instead and did a face-plant. I'm surprised there wasn't any bleeding or anything worse. Just a scrap on his elbow. So the rest of the day he was his usual normal self. We wouldn't let him run too much because we didn't want him to fall again. But he was fine, didn't show any problems or anything.

At night he said he didn't want to go to school because he wasn't feeling good enough. I asked him if he really didn't want to go because he felt silly for what happened and didn't want the other kids to laugh at him. He hesitated, then said yes. Both Marci and I reassured him that wouldn't happen. Marci told him that his teacher called, said she sat the class down, asked what happened, and that everyone was hoping he was ok. Heck, we had the Principle and Vice Principle call too! After some talking, he agreed he really did want to go to school, he just felt silly for what happened.

So it was quite the day for him - and us, especially Marci! But he's fine, no problems. Whew!

One more thing. Maddie was soooooo cute! She tried to give Riley stuff to make him feel better, brought over a blanket in case he wanted it, turned on a light for us, etc. Then she because jealous. She walked into something on purpose, didn't really hurt herself, but grabbed her head and said, "Ow! I hurt my head. Can you please hold me?" LOL! It was funny! After a few hours when Riley was feeling fine, they were back to playing together as usual.

Kids eating dinner

Me: Riley, Maddie, are you hungry?

Kids: YES!

Me: Maddie, what do you want to eat?

Maddie: What's Riley eating?

Riley: Fruit Loops!

Maddie: I want Fruit Loops too!


So the kids are having Fruit Loops for dinner. LOL!

Marci 2, Rich 0 - and that's a good thing!

This weekend we were working in the yard a lot. We bought a bunch of rocks (which is a strange concept - buying rocks...) to make a path and had lots left over. We placed some around one area of the house then decided we needed to get some border stuff. These are plastic brick looking rectangle things that have two stakes you hammer into the ground to keep them in place.

First Riley wanted to help hammer them in. I was tired, it had been a long day, and I was afraid he'd miss a lot and break a stake or something, so I said no. Marci told me to just let him have a try. I said no and told her why. She said that was silly and I should let him try. Again, I was tired, got mad, a few more dumb conversations went on and I threw down the hammer saying, "Fine! He can hammer one in!", which bounced over and hit Maddie's leg - fortunately for me, not badly, just a little tap. She was more surprised than hurt. Ya, that was pretty stupid of me to get so mad and do something so freakishly stupid. So I let Riley hammer a stake in.

He did a great job! I was now mad because I got so mad at something so dumb and I was quite wrong, he wasn't breaking them or causing any harm. That was really, REALLY stupid of me to not let him at least try it. So we finished all of them where I would pound in the first stake and he'd pound in the 2nd. And it was fun doing that together!

Marci 1, Rich 0.

Then Maddie wanted to try. I again said no because it would be too hard for her. Marci again said to let her have a try. I didn't want to, but saw how wrong I was about Riley, so let her have a try (while grumbling about it). In this case, it WAS too hard for her, she just couldn't swing the hammer hard enough. BUT, when she saw it was too hard, she was ok with not doing it! That shocked me. I thought she was going to throw a fit and want to keep doing it even though she couldn't. Nope, she was now fine with just watching.

Marci 2, Rich 0.

Moral of all this for me was that even if I'm tired, I should let the kids try things. Sometimes they will surprise me with how well they do and how well they act. Mostly, I shouldn't act like a 3 yr old and throw a hammer at the ground - I was lucky no one got hurt. At first I just wanted to finish it quickly, but I ended up having a lot of fun with Riley helping me.

Man, I hate it when I'm so stupid. Thankfully I have Marci to keep me in line. ;)

What did I get myself into?

Last night was orientation for Cub Scouts. At first Riley didn't want to do it. Then he found out some of his friends are going to do it so he wanted to. The kids went off to do some fun things and the adults stayed listening to what Scouting is about, costs, etc. I remember having a lot of fun in Scouts and thought Riley would enjoy it too. I also remember many times not wanting to do things, but as a kid, I never wanted to spend more than 5 minutes on something, got bored quickly, and never liked to do anything that required work. LOL! Fortunately I'm older now and think I can help Riley have fun.

At the end they said while they will take all of our applications, they need to have someone run this group, this Den of kids. Until they could get someone, they wouldn't be able to do anything. Then they asked if anyone there wanted to do it. After no one raised their hands, I raised mine. My mind was screaming, "Are you crazy? You barely have enough time to do anything NOW! Stop it! Put your hand down!!" But it wouldn't go down and my mouth enthusiastically said, "I'd like to do it!"

So now I'm going to be the Den Leader. What did I get myself into?

Riley & Maddie at the Dentist - and a quick run to the vet

Yesterday was a very long day. Both Riley and Maddie had major cavities and had them fixed. I was talking with the dentist to try and understand what we have been doing wrong that would give them so many cavities and he said he'll go over all of this in the follow-up visit. But it isn't any one thing, rather a bunch of things together.

First was Maddie at 6am! I got up at 4:30am to get her there on time. Then took her home, got Riley and brought him back. For both of them, because of their age and the amount of cavities, they said it would be best to put them out. This involved a shot in the arm that put them out in about three minutes! I mean it was fast! They were hooked up to IV's while they did the work, then I held them while they woke up. You know everything is perfectly safe and fine, but dang it, they are YOUR kids and well, you just can't help but be worried something will go wrong. Fortunately I had my laptop with me and was able to get online to do some work to take my mind off of it. ;)

Maddie took the shot fine, though she did crumple up her face and start to cry a little. But I comforted her and soon she was out. On waking up she was fine, just wanted to sleep. They wanted to make sure she was able to respond to questions before we left. To help her feel better when she woke up they had me bring a blanket of hers, something familiar. I also turned the Backyardigans on my laptop so she could have some familiar sounds - I'd say something to look at but she wasn't interested in looking at anything. She woke up fine - she told me she wanted to go home - and slept on the way home. Once we got home she didn't want to lay down, she wanted to sit with Mommy and have a drink.

I took Riley and he was mad. Not because he was going to the dentist, but because he was hungry and not allowed to eat. They couldn't have anything past midnight. We felt bad for him but I explained if he had something then his tummy might get upset and he would throw-up all over himself and the dentist. He agreed he didn't want to do that.

His shot was much harder. He saw the needle and did NOT want it! Then as the drug took affect he was shaking his head trying to clear it. It was harder to sit with him, but I just rubbed his back and told him I was there and everything was ok. Waking up was really hard. They had me come back to help hold him so she could get the IV out of his hand. He was groggy, disorriented, and couldn't see well. They made a comment about how strong he was - I had troubles holding him too! ;) Sitting in the wakeup area was tough. At first his vision was blurry and he was dizzy. It was tough to comfort him but I did my best. I also had Backyardigans on again as he likes them too (hey, just because you're 6 now doesn't mean you can't like Backyardigans). His vision got better and he wasn't dizzy but he kept crying because his mouth felt funny and he wanted to go home. He also wanted to know what was going on and what happened and why they gave him a shot and why they put something in the back of his hand and a bunch of other things. It was tough to get him to be calm, but with lots of big deep breaths, he did. He had some water which helped because his mouth was really dry.

I could tell he was feeling better because he was getting mad at me. See, we told him the day before that after this was over he could get the new Lego Indiana Jones for Playstation 3. He also saw an X-Men game for Playstation 2 that he wanted and well, we're softies, wanted him to feel good and be distracted during his recovery, so we said we'd get that for him too. He was mad because I told him I was going to drop him off at home and then go back out to get those games - he wanted to come with me! LOL! So we both went and got the games. He was tired and slept a bit in the car, but once we got home and got the games in, he was fine.

Oh, and while they were cleaning his teeth, his bottom front tooth came out! They gave it to us so we could have him put it under his pillow for the Tooth Fairy. He's happy and excited about having a tooth gone.

Both recovered great at home. Maddie took about a four hour nap, Riley just played quietly. After Maddie woke up around 6:30pm, both were awake and wanting to play - run, jump, all the usual stuff. No pain for either of them, I hope that continues this morning. It was quite the experience for all of us. We did use this as a way to get Riley to brush better though. We told him, "Do you want to go through that again? No? Then you need to brush EXTRA EXTRA good." He agreed with that. He doesn't remember anything of what happened other than the shot and waking up, kinda.

Fortunately for both, all of the cavities are in baby teeth - heck, all the teeth in their mouth are baby teeth and will fall out. So all those fillings they have will be gone. We're going to really work to keep them from getting more.

As we were all getting ready to go upstairs, we heard a yelp in the other room from one of the dogs. We figured they were just doing their usual playing. Roxy and Tiffany came running out and as I turned around I saw Zoey with a sad face and her right front paw up in the air. I picked her up and it was sensitive to touch. She was also shaking. We had one pain pill left and decided to be safe. So at 9pm (remember, I woke up at 4:30am and had no nap), I took her to the emergency Vet in Tualatin, about a 30 minute drive. Dove Lewis is closer, but we've had some no-so-great service there and never had anything bad at the Emergency Vet Clinic in Tualatin.

A super fantastic vet came to look at her, he was awesome!! He couldn't find any problems with the foot itself, no broken bones, no punchure wounds from teeth. We put her down and watched here walk. From the way she was walking - putting her foot down solid then not being able to put any pressure on it - it looked like a shoulder sprain. He said sometimes dogs play rough and slam into each other, almost t-boning each other. I told him yep, that's our dogs. ;) No reason for x-rays he said, because x-rays work only for bones, they don't tell much of anything for soft tissue damage. More pain meds and I was told to watch her to see if she starts putting any pressure on it. If things don't get better in a few days we need to have our vet look at her.

Poor Zoey was hurt, not feeling good, and shaking like crazy, it was hard to calm her down. And her tail was between her legs a lot, I felt sooooo bad for her. We weren't there long which was good, and she slept in the car on the way home as I pet her. Took here up to our bed so she could sleep next to Mommy - everyone wants to sleep next to Mommy so Daddy never gets to. LOL!

Got to bed at midnight and am very tired today. A really long day with lots of emotions. I'm very mellow today which just might be a good thing, I'm feeling like if I put my headphones on I'll be able to focus very easily and get lots of work done. ;)

Riley's Birthday

Wow, Riley is now 6! Where does the time go? We had a family birthday, and one with his friends at Safari Sam's. He had a great time at both, and loved getting presents twice. LOL!

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He's really had a great time in Kindergarten. Every day he looks forward to going and has a lot of new friends that he wants to have over this summer. That means we have to get busy and clean the backyard up.

6. Wow, just doesn't seem like it's been that long. And Maddie turns 3 in another few weeks! Need to take more photos and video so they can be embarrassed when they are in high school. haha

Riley jumping in Leaves

Today was a BEAUTIFUL day!! I mean shorts and t-shirts kind of weather. Well, it wasn't THAT hot, I think it got to the high 50's. But if you were in the sun it was really warm and nice - for November!

Riley went next door to help his friend Cameron rake up leaves. Then they made a big pile and had fun jumping into it! It was a riot to watch them. I took a bunch of photos. Click on the photo to see more.